Thursday, 21 August 2014

First date: 5 tips to make a good impression


First date 5 tips to make a good impression

During the first date, both men and women want this to be a success. There is no need to become George Clooney or Scarlett Johansson to seduce your date. Everything is based on how to behave and talk. Here are five tips to make a good impression during a first romantic date!

1. The perfect look
Here, the goal is not to look like a Hollywood star. By cons, it must be the contrary. For a first date, the first impression of the person will be framed to your look (clothing, makeup, jewelry, watches, shoes…). It is best to choose your favorite clothes and seek advice from close friends. Make sure that what you wear is perfectly suiting you.

2. Adopt a simple behavior
Body language is a crucial part of first impressions. When you meet someone for the first time, it is essential to pay attention to body language. Even without saying anything, your partner will notice behavior directly. The key is to always look at the person in the eye during conversation (with some winks not to scare him). When you talk, adopt a softer and slow tone. This helps put off stammering tongue due to panic and stress.

3. Just be yourself
Sometimes, some people think that focusing on behavior and showing a serious personality is the key point to a good impression vis-à-vis their interlocutor. In most cases, this translates into a kind of over contentment, machismo (for men) that can scare the date. This false personality can make the evening totally tiresome. The main thing is to stay natural, without being naughty. This rule is of use and helpful in almost all dates, and it is important at first contact.

4. Your best weapon: smile
It is simply a date, not a job interview. Stay on subjects that both interest you and your date. Moreover, avoid talking about work, religion, or politics. For keeping a good mood during the evening, keep smiling. This shows the person you are talking about your interest for him (her). If you keep a natural smile on your face, you can share friendliness and positive vibes around you. This is crucial to make a good impression at a first date. The person will directly perceive peace in you in his being there.

5. Be attentive and full of charisma
To win his favor, pay attention to his hobbies. From time to time, do not forget to say kind words about him/her. Talk with him like a friend, and do not hesitate to tell the fun experiences you have had. Do not take all the conversations; give him the opportunity to talk about his desires, or discuss any topic. You must have skills in animating conversation. If not, just be sure that conversations are equaled (50/50) between each other.

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